In the summer of 2001, we took our kids on a driving trip to the out west. Of course we didn’t drive from Michigan, but rather we flew from Detroit to Las Vegas. Upon arrival, we rented an RV and drove the loop which included the Grand Canyon, Zion National Park, Sedona, Page, and several other notable places along the way. Our routine was Brad and I would get up early, he would start driving and I would start fixing breakfast. It probably wasn’t really to be cooking eggs on the gas stove while he was driving down the road, we didn’t think much about it at the time. By the time the kids woke up we were a few miles down the road from the last stop and breakfast was ready. The trip was great and we saw so many amazing sites on this loop that you really could only see them by driving.
The kids had talked us into taking along the hot new electronic PlayStation device (which they had received for Christmas). That was the big game that year and we were actually probably the last people on the block to get it. We figured, “why not?” What a big mistake. I recall one afternoon we’re pulling into the Grand Canyon camp group at the south rim, rather close to the edge, and we were so excited to see it. I called the kids to come out of the back bedroom where they were playing Play Station. They didn’t come. They were so engaged in that crazy game. Finally, I physically went to the back unplugged the unit so that’s was the end of that. “Get upfront and see the Grand Canyon.” They could’ve cared less. We started lecturing the kids. This is an amazing place that they were able to see. “You should look out the window and be interested!” In reality, it was OUR fault. Mom & Dad messed up and almost ruined an incredible learning experience & family time. We explained to the kids that we had messed up in the PlayStation was packed away until they got home.. actually took the news pretty good. Had a great rest of our trip. This was all before the distraction of the phones and I really am glad that our kids, for the most part, didn’t have to deal with cell phones until high school, well, at least the older two…
Kids don’t have that luxury today; technology is part of their everyday life, from a very early age. Even though they may not have phone/tablet access their parents do. We all have seen our fair share of episodes of parents so engaged in their phone or computer, that they totally ignore their own children. Resist that temptation.
There’s so much in life to learn by just watching and observing. Teach your kids to be watchful and attentive. Point out details to them like a colorful sunset or a beautiful sunrise. They don’t learn this on their own. They will take a lead from you. If you are driving in the car with your kiddos, point out interesting things along the way.
I occasionally take our grandchildren to give Mom and Dad a break. The youngest of our grandchildren are just under three year old twins. This summer I took them over to visit my mom. We had to take a detour, which took us along country roads. Little Brooks pointed out a flag as we were driving and then his twin sister found another flag. on their own, they started pointing out flags. I asked a good point of any barns. It was surprised to hear them say red barn when they saw a. A parent to me that they had played this game with their parents in the car. They were looking for flags and red barns for the entire 25 minute drive. We had a nice visit with my mom and on the way home, they did the same thing. What a fun way to pass the time.
Teaching your kids to pay attention to their surroundings, observe the beauty around them and how to entertain themselves so you don’t always have to. It’s a good thing. Teaching them to play little games or observing sites along the way. These are fun opportunities to make memories that can turn a boring car ride into an amusing adventure, making for many a great days 🍎
